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May 18, 2020

There's No "Aye" in Team Suspension

Question: What if your child was suspended from playing volleyball by the coach for "not being a team player". Would my daughter (10th grader) have to answer the suspension question with "yes"? Does suspension only apply to suspension from school, not sports teams?

There’s no “I” in T-E-AM, but there’s also no “aye” in team suspension at college-application time. So, nope … your daughter’s volleyball suspension does not have to be reported to colleges. It’s only the actual school suspensions that colleges care about. However, if your daughter is a serious volleyball player who is hoping to continue in college, she will need to make peace with her coach and, hopefully, solicit the coach’s support when she’s ready to apply to colleges.

(posted 9/16/2011)

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Sally Rubenstone

Sally Rubenstone knows the competitive and often convoluted college admission process inside out: From the first time the topic of college comes up at the dinner table until the last duffel bag is unloaded on a dorm room floor. She is the co-author of Panicked Parents' Guide to College Admissions; The Transfer Student's Guide to Changing Colleges and The International Student's Guide to Going to College in America. Sally has appeared on NBC's Today program and has been quoted in countless publications, including The New York Times, The Washington Post, USA Weekend, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Newsweek, People and Seventeen. Sally has viewed the admissions world from many angles: As a Smith College admission counselor for 15 years, an independent college counselor serving students from a wide range of backgrounds and the author of College Confidential's "Ask the Dean" column. She also taught language arts, social studies, study skills and test preparation in 10 schools, including American international schools in London, Paris, Geneva, Athens and Tel Aviv. As senior advisor to College Confidential since 2002, Sally has helped hundreds of students and parents navigate the college admissions maze. In 2008, she co-founded College Karma, a private college consulting firm, with her College Confidential colleague Dave Berry, and she continues to serve as a College Confidential advisor. Sally and her husband, Chris Petrides, became first-time parents in 1997 at the ripe-old age of 45. So Sally was nearly an official senior citizen when her son Jack began the college selection process, and when she was finally able to practice what she had preached for more than three decades.

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