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Can My Son Change His College Choice After May 1?

Sally Rubenstone
Written by Sally Rubenstone | April 13, 2018

Question: My son is deciding between two colleges. If we put down a deposit at one college by May 1, but then two weeks or a month later, he changes his mind, can we go back to the second school and ask if they will take him then? In other words, he would accept at only one school but then ask the second school to renew the offer, a month or so after May 1. If we did that, I assume the chances of the second school accepting again are very low. True?

That's a gambit you can certainly try as long as you go into it rife with pessimism. However, working in your favor is the fact that nearly all colleges experience some “summer melt." That's when entering freshmen who committed in May change their minds in June, July or even August. Savvy enrollment managers are usually good at anticipating melt figures and are often able to end up with the exact class size they had wanted from the get-go despite this attrition. But sometimes there is too much melt, and that's where your son might luck out.

If he decides a month or so after the May 1 deadline that he's made the wrong choice, there's nothing unethical (or insanely unrealistic) about calling the second college to ask if it might still have a place for him. But what you might find out then is that it's too early for the college folks to provide an answer because the “summer melt" typically happens ... well ... over the summer. ;-) But what you probably can learn from that call is if the college is already overenrolled. In some years, admission officials discover that more students have accepted their offers than they actually wanted, so they cross their fingers and hope that a bunch of them will change their plans before it's time to give out the dorm keys in September.

Thus, if your son does contact the second college about a vacancy and is told that it's too soon to say, he should be sure to ask if the class is already more than full. If it is, this should help him put his hopes in perspective while he waits out the melting period. He also needs to understand that, if he was awarded financial aid or a merit scholarship when he was initially accepted, he may not get the same deal again.

But as a parent of a college student myself, I think that there's great value in urging your son to pick a college now, join the first-year Facebook group, buy the T-shirt and start to envision (and get excited about) where he will be living next fall rather than obsessing over other options.

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Sally Rubenstone

Sally Rubenstone

Sally Rubenstone knows the competitive and often convoluted college admission process inside out: From the first time the topic of college comes up at the dinner table until the last duffel bag is unloaded on a dorm room floor. She is the co-author of Panicked Parents' Guide to College Admissions; The Transfer Student's Guide to Changing Colleges and The International Student's Guide to Going to College in America. Sally has appeared on NBC's Today program and has been quoted in countless publications, including The New York Times, The Washington Post, USA Weekend, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Newsweek, People and Seventeen. Sally has viewed the admissions world from many angles: As a Smith College admission counselor for 15 years, an independent college counselor serving students from a wide range of backgrounds and the author of College Confidential's "Ask the Dean" column. She also taught language arts, social studies, study skills and test preparation in 10 schools, including American international schools in London, Paris, Geneva, Athens and Tel Aviv. As senior advisor to College Confidential since 2002, Sally has helped hundreds of students and parents navigate the college admissions maze. In 2008, she co-founded College Karma, a private college consulting firm, with her College Confidential colleague Dave Berry, and she continues to serve as a College Confidential advisor. Sally and her husband, Chris Petrides, became first-time parents in 1997 at the ripe-old age of 45. So Sally was nearly an official senior citizen when her son Jack began the college selection process, and when she was finally able to practice what she had preached for more than three decades.

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