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it ••••• your life up

you cant do anything but think about that person

love sucks...

By Laceycheer (Laceycheer) on Saturday, December 06, 2003 - 09:23 am: Edit

Whaaaat? I happen to think love is the greatest thing EVER. Im perfectly capable of living my life without constantly thinking about that person. Though, I am really sorry that your experiences have made you feel this way

By Gracious95 (Gracious95) on Saturday, December 06, 2003 - 12:43 pm: Edit

I agree with Lacey, it is the greatest thing ever..when it's with someone who loves you back.

I've been in love before, and it totally sucks when all you can do is think about them and there's nothing you can do about it!

I don't know about it messing up my life though..

By Number9 (Number9) on Saturday, December 06, 2003 - 01:16 pm: Edit

>>I've been in love before, and it totally sucks when all you can do is think about them and there's nothing you can do about it!

Oh yeah.

>>it ••••• your life up

Amen.

By Teshi (Teshi) on Saturday, December 06, 2003 - 03:36 pm: Edit

How can you concentrate on schoolwork when you could instead think of the person you like? Its impossible!

By Steffie1212002 (Steffie1212002) on Sunday, December 07, 2003 - 02:31 am: Edit

I'm in love everyone time I see a reflective surface...
Only joking. ;)

By Iceman370 (Iceman370) on Friday, December 12, 2003 - 03:37 am: Edit

Amen, Steff. you're my kinda gal! haha. as for me, i don't believe in love at this age, and so far it's held true. I came close to "love" with one girl, until I realized she was a huge dork and I just liked her looks, really (god she was annoying).

By Minibrit (Minibrit) on Saturday, December 13, 2003 - 06:58 pm: Edit

Iceman, i see you like concieted girls...you definatly cant be my fwb then .

Love doesnt exist. it was an invention by the hallmark company to make them spend money on stupif corny cr@p

mman i wish people could look past MY annoyingness

By Minibrit (Minibrit) on Saturday, December 13, 2003 - 07:00 pm: Edit

"Throwing lightning bolts at minibrit...mwa ahaa haa"

what the hell? do you even know me? stop stalking me

By Steffie1212002 (Steffie1212002) on Saturday, December 13, 2003 - 10:48 pm: Edit

Who's stalking who? You're the one who reads my profile obsessively...
Although considering how absolutely fabulous I am, I don't blame you. :D

By Minibrit (Minibrit) on Saturday, December 13, 2003 - 11:35 pm: Edit

ive read it twice...i wanted to show the guy how annoying you were by sending him there....and im not the one putting strangers name in my profile. god why are all stephanies so insanely annoying! what drug are you on jeez! stop! drugs are bad!! and get off that pedastol

By Iceman370 (Iceman370) on Sunday, December 14, 2003 - 01:56 am: Edit

ahem. what is it about people here that makes them not understand "haha?" It means "hey, I'm kidding, and this is how I'm showing it in the absence of tone inflection." and in response to your accusation, I like ALL kinds of girls, and you KNOW you still want fwb!

By Bbstlchi (Bbstlchi) on Sunday, December 14, 2003 - 10:46 am: Edit

i love all steffies

By Minibrit (Minibrit) on Sunday, December 14, 2003 - 10:45 pm: Edit

note to self: be annoying it will pay off

"hi low everybody what a loverly day tis is. wow woopdi do spank you very much" oh do you love me now people?

By Bbstlchi (Bbstlchi) on Sunday, December 14, 2003 - 11:15 pm: Edit

Are u british minibrit??

By Singergirl (Singergirl) on Monday, December 15, 2003 - 10:04 am: Edit

No AND its on purpose. you see being a true libra that i am i can find somthing beautiful in almost anyone, and gush over it to the point i can see my self married and having the kids of the guy before i even talk to him once. Translation; I fall in love too easily. And yes it sux. I have to be double careful and have turned down a lot of guys just because i thought i would end up fallin for them by the second date. And its for that reason i believe i will truly never be in love with some one.

By Iceman370 (Iceman370) on Tuesday, December 16, 2003 - 05:26 am: Edit

that's tragic, really

By Minibrit (Minibrit) on Tuesday, December 16, 2003 - 05:40 pm: Edit

how come my posts dont show up? I said it was not love but infactuation

By Dragonreborn (Dragonreborn) on Tuesday, December 16, 2003 - 07:16 pm: Edit

"No man is worth your love. The one who is will never make you cry". Agree or disagree?

By Minibrit (Minibrit) on Tuesday, December 16, 2003 - 11:05 pm: Edit

disagree, u may shed tears of joy lol

By Ionmech (Ionmech) on Thursday, December 18, 2003 - 03:09 am: Edit

Love. Ya, it didnt •••• up my life. But it did keep me up some nights. I'd lose track of what I was doing homework/study-wise and then I'd end up staying up later and such. I feel like I waste maybe a little too much time in my care for people that I've had something for in the past. And what really sucks is when you liked someone then you realize they are like the most disgusting person in the world. In my case, I fell for this girl but this year completely despise her. Her attitude towards life is devoted to a number next to her name on a transcript and she'll pull any stupid trick to get it. She's one of those people that sits in clubs I'm in, that I'm DEVOTED to, just to put them on her college app. On the other hand I've got a great friend that's also devoted to a number (she's valedictorian), but unlike the first girl, she's honest and isn't a bitch. :-D Much easier to like someone who is noble and hardworking. Ok, I kinda rambled... but thats my story.

By Varr (Varr) on Thursday, December 18, 2003 - 08:51 am: Edit

Hell yeah!It could screw up your whole future!!

thats why my rulesi: no serios thing till I get throu my SAT's

By Enlightenment (Enlightenment) on Thursday, December 18, 2003 - 08:14 pm: Edit

I'm in love, but that doesn't mean I can't do my work. And actually the person I love is actually someone who gives me the drive to do well in school. I want to do well for myself, but a part of doing well is because of that special someone.

By Krm0627 (Krm0627) on Thursday, December 18, 2003 - 08:43 pm: Edit

Anyone know anything about long distance relationships, or a college to high school relationship? Any tips or concerns?

By Crnchycereal (Crnchycereal) on Thursday, December 18, 2003 - 08:48 pm: Edit

I personally have no experience with long-distance relationships, or even normal relationships for that matter, but I can say based off of observation that they almost never work. Every single long-distance relationship that I've seen so far, whether between high schoolers and college students or kids going to different colleges, it always ends up falling apart. I'm not saying that they never work, but in most cases, they don't.

By Enlightenment (Enlightenment) on Thursday, December 18, 2003 - 11:58 pm: Edit

Long distance relationships do turn out well in some cases, although it is a little iffy at times. I'm in one as well, and things are going great. We may not see each other, but we talk everyday online and that means a lot to me. If she/he is really that special someone, then the relationship will work out. (Suggestion: If you're in a long distance relationship and you talk online, get a webcam! Then you can see each other and still be far away from each other )

Some concerns may be that two people in a long distance relationship cannot see each other often, therefore, a third person may come into play. That can be upsetting.. but it happens. Another concern would be that one person may start to lose interest in the other because of the lack of interaction and not being able to be close to each other. This happened to one of my previous relationships, I rarely saw my bf and so my feelings for him gradually leveled to the point where I didn't feel like he was my boyfriend anymore. However, this does not happen in all relationships, it really depends whether the two people are meant to be with each other or not. If the connection between two people is strong enough and true, distance should not even be a concern.

I saw the news one day and it showed a bunch of marriage ceremonies that were performed for people who met online. The couples met each other online and then eventually got married. These were people who only talked online for the first part of their so called "online relationship", some even lasted for a few years. So you see, long distance relationship will eventually change to a relationship where you and your gf/bf are in the same location. It's really a matter of time and patience, if you have those, the relationship will work out fine. Of course, there's always the matching factor

And geez.. I'm writing a book, so I'll stop here