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Unfortunately, I'm not that good of a public speaker. I can talk to people my age that I have just met in an easy environment but I'm not good at speaking to adults, especially in an interview type setting. I came to this realization when I was talking to my academic advisor. I noticed that I wasn't making eye contact. That really bothered me. I notice that I don't do that with my peers either. I also fidget. I can't sit still very long. I am also at a loss for words. Any tips would help. I have some time to improve so long term suggestions are welcome as well. Right now I'm a junior in high school. Thanks

By Jekyllnhyde10 (Jekyllnhyde10) on Friday, September 17, 2004 - 06:09 am: Edit

I know it sounds crazy but I'm in debate and I'm also sometimes at a loss for words and making eye contact is pretty difficult I use these tips and tricks

Try to practice what you are going to say in front of a mirror or family members to feel more comfortable in front of people and you'll feel confident in what you have to say. Try to tape record yourself if you tend to have changes in voice when nervous.

As for eye contact I try to look like making eye contact and just space out. A tip other popular debators at my school use is to look at another feature of the person's body or something nearby that simply makes you look as if you're paying attention

Bring a small descreet ball of clay to fidget with behind your back at the interview. Hope that helps

By Sraid7777 (Sraid7777) on Friday, September 17, 2004 - 06:48 pm: Edit

face your fears

By Baggins (Baggins) on Saturday, September 18, 2004 - 09:51 pm: Edit

Thanks I'll definately try that